What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence, without a basic kind and predetermined result. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Of course, always with regard for (shared) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage happens on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and often even at the depths of heart and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, thrilled state of being. The effect is frequently a fantastic physical, mental wellness. Normally, the receiver is extremely unwinded, incredibly streaming and ending up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch full of attention and presence. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Most touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact love that touches. The hands of the giver are linked with his/her heart. The touch is caring, constantly focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and likewise feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be loving!
Filled with attention and existence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence. Both the giver and the receiver are completely present. Do not think about the other day or tomorrow. Don't take a look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or getting the massage. A really conscious touch from the heart. Get likewise really consciously, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are actually out of the concern. Whatever takes place in the moment, completely awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the situation. Dreaming away or dropping off to sleep is also not meant (still, when that's what you require, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't about a predetermined result
A tantric massage will constantly be different. You never understand how it will turn out. It is not the strategy or the preferred sequence of massaging that is essential, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the moment? What is good for her/him? Love knows exactly what to do, love always has a suitable reaction. And so the massage will be precisely that exactly what is required. Adequate is that the provider is present and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own plan, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore typically take a very surprising course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in bliss.
Ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Constantly with respect to limits
We understood it for a very long time, of course, but since the #MeToo discoveries, some things have turned up worldwide of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both giver and receiver always must be guaranteed. Loving attunement always comes.
Set clear boundaries in advance
It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage need to always be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is likewise totally okay (though hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have actually given/received numerous tantric massages just on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation freely
Triggering and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Obviously, always with regard for (mutual) boundaries. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays an important function once again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ emotional/ passionate/ love/ production/ intuitive energy.
Concentrated on the natural thrilled state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and awareness. In a split 2nd you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), but normally, that is a procedure in time. Tantra understands various strategies to utilize on the journey to knowledge. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has no function other than self-realization: restoring the natural (overjoyed) state of being.
Normally resulting in a wonderful physical, mental well-being
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is generally good, in some cases delicious. We, for that reason, welcome you to fully enjoy getting ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of types of massage. Of course, all massages have particular practices and methods in common. Yet there is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (targeted at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (focused on healing).
Well because you are truly extremely energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but therapy is a profession apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the article on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stand out:
Tantra massage tips-- prior to you start
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both Tantric Massage Regents Park an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply great conditions (physically, but also mentally).
* Explain arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Ensure your massage is demand complimentary, don't push or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every so often ... do nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Provide feedback (pleasure sounds?).
* Develop in combination (rest) moments.
Demand totally free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried about exactly what they themselves discover pleasant, fun, preferable. Though a tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your own "requirements", keep away from your very own problems and above all ... do not aim to require anything. Nothing has to be done, nothing is required! Again, do not attempt to enforce anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Perhaps you are disappointed when somebody falls asleep. You might not be awaiting an emotional cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No desired outcome. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage suggestions (insights/rules).
* Do not work to an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it typically is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this has to do with letting that energy circulation.
* Regard limits, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, obviously. Know that it can turn out differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being aroused is typical and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can turn up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing minutes. Prevent limitations from being crossed once again.
* Action by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and provide combination moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean do not hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy construct and flood your whole body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (but you will not fall asleep). During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (in some cases completely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly streaming life energy. Your body armor ends up being softer, thinner and even disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible recovery effect. It is possible that obstructions, emotional injuries come to the surface. There may be an emotional release, consisting of physical reactions such as shaking, weeping, shocks. Despite the fact that tantra massage is not the exact same as healing, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you discover what it is like to love yourself.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy implies that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and presence.
* The entire body takes part.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined result.
* With respect to (mutual) limits.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Normally resulting in a wonderful physical, mental wellness (of both).